DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend is treating me like a complete mug as I know he’s on dating sites and chatting to other women.

We split up for a while but we settled our arguments and we moved back in together after just one month apart.

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Things seemed to be better but I felt he was hiding something so I went through his phone and found some messages, proving he’d been chatting to somebody.

When I confronted him, he turned it on me, asking why I’d been through his private stuff and saying I didn’t trust him.

He said the message was from when we were split up – but it wasn’t. It was three weeks ago when we were together.

I’m a 22-year-old woman and he’s 25.

I’m having his baby but I don’t want to be with a cheat.

DEIDRE SAYS: His tactics were to deflect the attention away from himself when you caught him out.

Although going through his phone isn’t OK, he does need to explain why he’s turning to other people for attention.

You don’t deserve that.

You’ve got back together but not tackled your problems.

You need to do this before your baby arrives.

My support pack called Relationship MOT will help you out of the rut you’re in.

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